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Monday, December 21, 2009

My Dad Has Cancer

I am exhausted. It's been a long day. They cancelled my dad's surgery. They had done a biopsy prior to the surgery and saw that there was absolutely a malignancy and it had spread. At this point we don't know what kind. We don't know by the sample where it started, just that it is cancer. Of course the belief is that it is pancreatic. I have been at the hospital all day. He is weak and can hardly speak. He sleeps most of the time. This has been a very hard and difficult time for my whole family. My mother is barely keeping it together. I will write more later. It's time to rest for now.

Oh and because it spread the surgery was basically pointless. It couldn't save him anymore. So it's been a discouraging day, to say the least.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

damn
just damn.

Well we'll stillbe puttin out good JuJu and pullin for him.

Hugs.

roxxymetal said...

I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I know this has been a tough time for you and your family...you hang in there! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Femmepower said...

OMG.That's a terrible news.Hope you and your family find strength with each other in this hard situation.Keep on praying.hugs.

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

That just sucks. I'm so sorry to hear that. I remember recently being in a hospital and having so much hope and then getting bad news...it blows the wind right out of you and your once stable ground is again shaky and unknown.

I'm sorry Sandi for what you guys are going through.

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers :)

TentCamper said...

I am very sorry for you Sandi. Please know that I and the rest of the gang here at Hot Dads are praying for you all.

Please keep us posted and keep your head up.

Just Jules said...

that indeed is not the kind of news one wants to hear. popping in from Sage's place. Extending my thoughts to you - for what ever that can be worth.

Sulpicia said...

Thinking good thoughts for you and your family.

Karl said...

Best wishes to your father , you and your family.

DGB said...

Oh man. I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Danielle said...

Sage directed us to you to give you a hug and keep you in our prayers.
I am doing both.

dadshouse said...

Very sorry to hear. Sending prayers.

nitebyrd said...

I'm sorry. Sending you some positive energy and good thoughts.

Amber said...

oh how awful!
I'm praying that you and your family are granted peace in such a stormy time for you. My heart goes out to you all
*hugs*

TD said...

Sandi, I am so sorry to read this news. There is nothing to say except you know we are here for you to vent to.

((many hugs))

Scarlett said...

I know that when it comes to something like this there just aren't words to make it better, but I truly do wish you and your family peace throughout out all of this.

Catherine said...

Sandi, I am so sorry to hear about your father. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I know how difficult it is, especially during the holiday season. I pray this coming year will bring you and your family peace and happiness.

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