kZaMSEs8bhox1qeqgumRFj9Lymo Nothing Off Limits: More On My Father, Pancreatic Cancer

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Wednesday, December 23, 2009

More On My Father, Pancreatic Cancer

It has been confirmed. It is pancreatic cancer and it has metastasized all over his body. In other words, it's too late. Right now we are working on bringing home. That's where he wants to be. We will need Hospice to come in and nurses to help but somehow we'll make this work. I want my dad in his own home.

It's been a discouraging year and an even worse Christmas season for me. How can one feel any Christmas spirit when the whole month is about whether or not my dad will live or die? It's hard. I can't focus on Christmas. I have had so much to worry about.

Today I will meet my sister at the hospital to discuss the next move.

My dad is just 57 years old. Don't forget to hug your daddy this Christmas.

9 comments:

Karsun said...

I'm so very sorry. My dad passed away right before Christmas in 2000 and we'd even already bought presents. :( He had cancer as well but was much older than your dad. The bright spot is that they had given him 6 months and he lived 5 years. Best of wishes and saying prayers.

Southern Sage said...

Damn.
Girl I am sooooooooooo sorry.

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

I'm sorry Sandi.

Really Really sorry.

The one blessing from all of this is that you have time to cherish every moment until it is his time to go.

You guys are in my prayers.

I'm so so sorry.

Hubman said...

That sucks beyond words. I'm so sorry :-(

BK said...

Sandi, sorry to hear about this. May you and your family find peace this Christmas. Sending positive thoughts to your father. May he be free from any suffering and pain.

Hope said...

I really am sorry. Sage sent me over.I wish it had been under better circumstances. Sending you light. -Hope

Melissa said...

Sandi I don't know what to say, except I am sorry, and my thoughts are with you and your family.

nitebyrd said...

I'm so sorry, Sandi. Sending you more good thoughts and prayers.

chocdrop said...

Oh my, I am so sorry to hear this news.

Enjoy your dad every single second!!! We will be here for you!

Sending you warm hugs.

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